Look At Me By Mareike Krügel

📓 Look At Me is an Adult Women’s Fiction novel by German author Mareike Krügel. I received a complimentary copy in exchange for my honest, unbiased opinion. Thank you to the publisher, author, and NetGalley, for allowing me to review.📚



Title: Look At Me

Author: Mareike Krügel

Translated by Imogen Taylor

Genre: Adult Women’s Fiction

Publisher: Text Publishing

Date published: February 2018

Page Count: 288




Katharina’s husband isn’t coming home for the weekend—again—so she’s on her own. When their chaotic daughter Helli has a nosebleed, Kat has to dash off to school to pick her up.

Then their son, Alex, announces he’s bringing his new girlfriend home for the first time. Kat’s best friend from college is coming around tonight too, and she’s wondering if she should try to seduce him—but first she needs to do the shopping, the vacuuming and the laundry, deal with an exploding clothes-dryer, find their neighbour’s severed thumb in the front yard and catch a couple of escaped rodents.

When she’s got all that sorted, perhaps she’ll have time to think about the thing she’s been trying not to think about—the lump she’s just found in her breast. Because you can’t just die and leave a huge mess for someone else to clean up…can you? And wasn’t there supposed to be more to life than this?” https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/36484385-look-at-me

My Review

Mareike Krügel has written four novels, Look At Me is the first to be translated from German to English by Imogen Taylor. Told from the perspective of a mom named Katha, the story is about truths, mortality, marriage, motherhood, sexism, and gender roles.


Katha is a musicologist who teaches music to Kindergartens. She hasn’t been able to finish her thesis or find a satisfying career due to her daughter Helli, a very busy, impulsive, eleven-year-old who may have ADHD. Katha’s son Alex is “the perfect son”, smart, considerate, and good looking. Katha’s husband Costas accepted a job working away from home after being laid off from his dream job.

We also get to meet Sissi (Katha’s sister), Ann-Brit (Katha’s long time friend), Theo & Heinz (transgender neighbors), and Kilian (Katha’s male friend from school).

I found Katha to be incredibly annoying and had a really hard time caring about her. Helli stole the show for me. She reminded me a lot of my own nine-year-old son.

There are a few moments that come across as unbelievable, but that may be due to the translation. Look At Me is a quirky, funny story with a crazy ending that reminds us to be grateful for what we have and the people who love us.

About the author.jpg

“Mareike Krügel lives in Schleswig-Holstein with her husband and their two children. She has received numerous literary awards, including the Friedrich Hebbel Prize.”



3 thoughts on “Look At Me By Mareike Krügel

    • I agree, the cover is great. The premise had a lot of promise. As a mom I could relate to her feelings. Just a few tweaks and it would have been a 4 or 5 star for me. I think some of the story was lost in translation. Any excitement I had building up was deflated while reading the ending sadly 😦

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